Homily (Reflection) for the Thirtieth
Sunday of the Year (A) (29th October, 2017) on the Gospel
Ex 22:20-26;
Ps 17:2-4.47.51
(R. V. 2);
1Thess 1:5-10;
Matt 22:34-40.
One man while reprimanding his
son complained bitterly that he had done everything he could as a father. According
to him, no one could love better than he did. He repeated this a good number of
times. At a point, his son excused himself in a very polite manner, went into
his room and came back searching through the pages of the bible. His father
stopped with his mouth wide open and his brain filled with possibilities moped
at him. After a while, he referred his father to John 15:13. The man quickly took the bible and it reads: “No one
has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” The man
could not make a meaning out of the passage. Hence he enquired what the passage
meant in the context and the boy told him: “Despite the fact that you have
boasted so much of loving me more than any person can love his/her son. I doubt
so much how true this claim is because if a man could die for his friends, a
father who truly loves his son is expected to do much more than dying.”
Topic:
Two wings of Christian love.
In today’s gospel, a Pharisee and a
lawyer by profession tested Jesus by asking Him, “Teacher, which commandment in
the law is the greatest?” In reply, Jesus defined Christian love using Deuteronomy 6:5 and Leviticus 19:18, cf. Gal 5:14 - “You
shall love the Lord your God with all your soul, and with all your mind’. This
is the greatest and first commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall
love your neighbour as yourself’” (Matt
22: 37-39).
Christian love has two dimensions – love of God (vertical)
and love of neighbour (horizontal). These two dimensions are qualified.
Generally, Christian love is an unconditional love. Loving God demands one’s
unreserved love hence with one’s entire soul and mind. On the other hand, one
is expected to love his/her neighbour just as he or she loves him/herself. This
kind of love can be likened to the type of love Paul encourages husbands to
have for their wives, cf. Eph 5:25-29.
Christian love is not something that exists only for a
while. According to Song of Songs, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can
floods drown it. If one offered for love all the wealth of his house, it would
be utterly scorned” (Song 8:7). Hence,
Saint Francis de Sales rightly gave us the standard with which we can measure
love: “The measure of love is to love without measure”. According to Saint
John, “To love is to live according to his commandments: this is the
commandment which you have heard since the beginning, to live a life of love” (2Jn 1:6). To love God is to keep his
commandments cf. 1Jn 5:3. Earlier
Saint John wrote:
If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates
his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has
seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from
him, that he who loves God should love his brother also (1Jn 4:20-21).
Although God blessed people with various gifts, but love
ranks higher than the rest. In his first letter to the Corinthians he wrote:
If I speak in the tongues of mortals
and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge,
and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am
nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that
I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing (1Cor 13:1-3).
There is no gain saying that love hurts. Yet no one is free
not to love. In his first letter to the Corinthians Saint Paul wrote that he
who does not love God is cursed, cf. 1Cor
16:22. In his first letter, Saint John also wrote: “By this it may be seen
who are the children of God, and who are the children of the devil: whoever does
not do right is not of God, nor he who does not love his brother” (1Jn 3:10). Saint John admonishes us: “Little
children, let us not love in word or speech but in deed and in truth” (1Jn 3:18). “Love covers a multitude of
sins (1Pt 4:8). The love of
neighbour is the royal law, cf. Jas 2:8.
Just like the boy we saw in our introductory story, for some
of us, the onus to love lies on the other. However, there is something better
than being loved. An anonymous writer expressed this in these words: “If there
is anything better than to be loved it is loving”. And Jesus did not command us
to see that others love us as themselves, but to love our neighbour as
ourselves. Love must be free with no string attached to it because love seizes
to be love when it seizes to be free. Some see acts of love as baits to get
others dance to their tunes. To love because you want the other do as you want
is not love. An American Psychologist, Dr Joyce Brothers has this to say: “Love comes when manipulation stops; when you
think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When
you dare to reveal yourself fully. When you dare to be vulnerable.”
My dear brothers and sisters, let
us genuinely love our brothers and sisters. “My love be with you all in Christ
Jesus. Amen” (1Cor 16:24).
Bible Reading: Rom 13: 8-10; 1Cor 13: 1-13; Phil 2:2b-4; 1Jn 2:29-3:24;
4: 7-21.
Thought for today: Do you love God and your neighbour as you ought?
Let
us pray: My God, You are
love. Teach me how to love you and my neighbours as I ought and also give me
the strength to carry it out – Amen.
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